A film about forgetting

Things you'll forget: the way she said "binkie." the drawing she made on a Tuesday. the exact pitch of his giggle at two. how small her hand felt in yours. the song you sang every single night.

Firsts remembers.

A private memory capsule for parents. So the small things — the ones that feel ordinary today — don't slip through.

— a note from Dr. Zee —

I'm a hospitalist. I take care of people at the end of their stories. The thing they all wish they had more of — the small days, written down.

I built Firsts after I caught myself forgetting my own daughter's first word. There were a hundred memory apps. None of them deserved to hold a childhood.

How it feels

A childhood, remembered out loud.

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14 months First word
Voice waveform of a child's first word

"Mama."
Voice memo · 4 seconds · sealed forever.

2 years First steps
A toddler taking first steps

May 22 · the garden

Three wobbly steps.
Then she fell into your lap, laughing.

3 years Third birthday
Third birthday memory

She blew out the candle. All by herself.
You cried. Quietly. So she wouldn't notice.

4 years First drawing
Child's crayon drawing of her family

"my family" · April

Mom. Dad. And a wobbly little sun.
Snapped, captioned, captured in 8 seconds.

5 years First day of school
First day of school

Backpack bigger than she was.
She didn't look back. Of course she didn't.

7 years Summer she'll remember
Summer at the beach

Salt water. Sandy hands. Endless light.
You'll tell her about this one when she's grown.

18 years Sealed for graduation

"To my Sofia — on the morning of your graduation…"

opens May 28, 2042

A letter. Written today. Locked. Delivered the morning she walks the stage.

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Nobody else does this

Write a letter today.
They open it in 2042.

The Graduation Capsule. Choose a date — any date — far in the future. Write what you'd want them to know. Firsts seals it shut. Delivered, untouched, on the exact day you chose.

6,205
days until
graduation morning
letters you can
seal forever
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other apps
that do this

May 28, 2042 — sealed

"To my Sofia,

You're 18 today. By the time you read this, you'll have lived 6,205 days I'll never get back. Here's what I want you to know about the small ones —

On a Tuesday when you were three, you drew a wobbly orange sun and called it Mommy. I taped it to the fridge. It's still there..."

— Letter #1 of 47. Sealed. Counting down.

Four ways to remember

Photo. Voice. Drawing. Writing. All in one tap.

Most apps make you choose one. Firsts captures every way a moment actually happens — a snapshot, a giggle, a scribbled drawing, a sentence you don't want to lose.

  • Voice memos — their actual voice, dated and sealed
  • Drawings — snap a photo of their art, captioned in seconds
  • Daily prompts — when you don't know what to write today
  • On this day — what happened last year, gently surfaced
Firsts home screen showing memory feed and On this day recap

Sofia's first three years.

Built by a doctor

Dr. Zee is a practicing hospitalist and father of two. He built Firsts because the existing apps were ad-riddled or quietly selling family data.

Private by design

Memories live on your phone. iCloud backup is encrypted and optional. Your family's life isn't a training dataset.

Yours, forever

Export the whole archive as a beautiful PDF book any time. No subscription holds your child's history hostage.

Honest pricing

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Every plan keeps every memory you've already created. No bait-and-switch.

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  • 30 memories per child
  • Monthly recap
  • Basic milestones
  • Local, private storage
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Everything, all year

$29.99/year

≈ $2.49/mo. Auto-renews until cancelled.

  • Unlimited memories & children
  • Unlimited AI-drafted letters
  • Time Capsules (5, 10, 13, 18, 21)
  • Pro memory books & PDF export
  • Encrypted iCloud backup
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No recurring charges. Yours for life.

  • Everything in Pro Annual
  • Every future Pro feature
  • A childhood, never paywalled again
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Monthly plan also available at $4.99/month inside the app. Payment is charged to your Apple ID at confirmation of purchase. Subscriptions auto-renew unless cancelled at least 24 hours before the end of the current period. Manage or cancel in Apple ID Settings.

Questions parents ask

Is Firsts actually private?+

Yes. By default, every memory is stored on your device. Nothing is sold or shown to advertisers. iCloud backup is encrypted and optional — turn it off and your memories never leave your phone.

Will my child actually see the letters?+

Yes. Choose a future date and seal it. The letter stays locked until that exact day — their 5th birthday, graduation morning, their wedding. You decide.

What if I want to switch later, or stop paying?+

Every memory you've already captured stays yours, always — even on Free. Cancel any time in Apple ID Settings. We don't hold your child's history hostage.

Does Firsts run on Android?+

iPhone and iPad first. Android is on the roadmap.

Who built Firsts?+

Dr. Zee — a practicing hospitalist and father of two. He built Firsts because the existing apps weren't built to hold something this important.

— start their capsule —

Childhood happens once.
Don't let it disappear.

Future you — and one day, future them — will thank present you.

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